Why am I blogging?

My daughter's smile is the lovely one you see above! I love to see people smile! Maybe that is why ...I like to capture smiles or snapshots of things that make others smile with my camera. I know we can't go through every minute of life with a smile but I hope that even when life is hard we can have a peace that others will notice and desire. My blog initially started as a way to honor my mom and her great outlook on life. She died in May 2010 from cancer. I don't think I can ever due justice to her life but I hope I can live my life in a way that would make her proud. The one other great privilege I have had is to be Carol Hensley Singletary's mother. She was our only child and she died suddenly on Feb .27, 2013. She was 19 years old. Her zest for life, her smile and her loving personna is missed by many, but none more than by her husband of just 6 months, Cooper. We carry on by grace and faith in God, and will look for any means to smile while we are left here on this earth for some reason by God. What I would give just to see the beautiful smile of my mom and daughter again! I know without a doubt I will someday, but until then I am going to try and praise my God and King in the life's good days and through life's pains. And i'm sharing here ...in hopes that you will smile with me. judy!

Tuesday, July 7, 2015

The Disconnected World



I was out the other day on Sunday evening in my car and noticed how barren the roadways were.   Even at the Mall, yes I still do shopping the 'old' way by traveling to the store, I can see that the hallways and stores seem less crowded.  So I shop and go to purchase some items and the person ringing you up wants your email, and ask if you have their free app on your phone.  Sigh.   Is it just me or is this all becoming the norm?   

Sometimes I feel the 'oldness' creeping up on me.  I don't want to get more email...I have trouble managing mine as it is.  And I don't want to worry about viruses, trojans, and malware...geez, not only are we becoming disconnected we are getting mean.   Hackers ....you should be ashamed of yourself.  

I wonder if my grandkids that I will never have would think it would be acceptable to text me on special occassions.?  NO it isn't.  {that comes with a foot stomping and I don't have to feel guilty saying that cause --just because!)  

Here is my point.  I like Facebook;  OK, I love Facebook as a way to keep up with my family and friends that live away (and some right here in town) and aren't too busy to post a kind greeting to me every once in awhile.  And yes, I do absolutely hate texting and auto-correct.  Just call me 'granny'; I think I am already used to the idea.  But with all its greatness there is something  lost now days in the way we communicate.  I was surprised when a young friend could not read some cursive writing in a book I had.   I know how they feel, my mom used to write sensitive stuff in 'short-hand' and I had no idea what it said, but thought it looked pretty.

Then some people judge you by what font you use...fonts are like character or personality.  Just be careful using ALL  CAPITALS; someone might think you are yelling at them.  Sure I can use a different font when I want to speak in a different dialect,  but it is just not the same as being able to giggle at my friend from Boston who says  "pizzer and bea-year" for pizza and beer"  (as close as i can type the pronunciation--thank you spellcheck, that is a big word).   

And what about those special English rules like "I before E except after ?"  Pretty soon our elementary schools are not going to have anything to teach. ......NO cursive, they are pushing for NO MATH, and since the computer or phone can correct all your boo boos, why have ENGLISH, except to have  favorite font to write your book report (5 pages doubles spaced minimum aerial 12 font size) on the last book your read.  Maybe they will indulge us, if you please, cause there are times, you might have to use paper and pen, but finding a book ,,,one with a paperback or a stronger still hardback (either known as a hardcopy) might be a trick in a few years.  Will our grandchildren be amazed to see one some day?   Yes, that is a book with pages, my child, we used them back in my day.  But your tiny computer can hold a library full of  them and even read to you if you have that whim.

Will they know how to speak with sarcasm?  Or maybe there is a way to  type it within a text, I have not learned that technique yet, but I think i should or chaos will be my mode of writing ,,,,such as it has come to be.

At least maybe now, I will be good at the 'old questions' on Jeapardy!, but if the category is NETFLIX just go ahead and sit me out.

  Always, looking for a positive and hoping to hear a human voice once in awhile!

Judy
7-7-15

P.s. and did you know you don't have to put two spaces after a period now?????

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