Why am I blogging?

My daughter's smile is the lovely one you see above! I love to see people smile! Maybe that is why ...I like to capture smiles or snapshots of things that make others smile with my camera. I know we can't go through every minute of life with a smile but I hope that even when life is hard we can have a peace that others will notice and desire. My blog initially started as a way to honor my mom and her great outlook on life. She died in May 2010 from cancer. I don't think I can ever due justice to her life but I hope I can live my life in a way that would make her proud. The one other great privilege I have had is to be Carol Hensley Singletary's mother. She was our only child and she died suddenly on Feb .27, 2013. She was 19 years old. Her zest for life, her smile and her loving personna is missed by many, but none more than by her husband of just 6 months, Cooper. We carry on by grace and faith in God, and will look for any means to smile while we are left here on this earth for some reason by God. What I would give just to see the beautiful smile of my mom and daughter again! I know without a doubt I will someday, but until then I am going to try and praise my God and King in the life's good days and through life's pains. And i'm sharing here ...in hopes that you will smile with me. judy!

Tuesday, October 30, 2012

Do We Understand Their Sacrifice?

A Facebook friend recently posted about a similar reaction to the troops and I thought I would share again here....

Previously posted in my notes on Facebook;  by Judy Good Hensley on Friday, April 2, 2010 at 5:59pm ·
 
We were in the Atlanta airport yesterday walking through a terminal to get to our next flight. We had passed a few soldiers in another terminal, but in this terminal there were many more. When we reach the middle of this terminal two waiting areas were full of men and women military personnel in the sand camouflage uniforms. My husband asked one man if they were going back overseas, and the man said, "yes, we have been on leave".

Sometimes the significance of an event is only fully comprehended when it strikes a personal chord. This certainly happened with me. After we sat down I went back down the hallway hoping I could muster enough courage to say 'thank you' to some of them. But when I got back to where all the soldiers were at all I did as I passed by was to just smiled at some. I was thinking 'How can I just say 'thank you' to just a few of them?” So I went back toward our gate waiting area without saying a word to one of them..

Back in the waiting area of our gate, in the middle of many civilians, I saw a young woman in her camouflage and I told myself 'Go tell her!' So I awkwardly approached her and said "Excuse me, I just wanted to say 'thank you for your service to our country!” I extended my hand, she shook it and replied "IT IS MY HONOR". I was overwhelmed. Here was a young lady, probably not more than 10 years older than my daughter who was leaving her family and friends for an extended amount of time to go work for us, maybe far away, maybe in harm’s way, and maybe because of a dedication instilled in her by ones who understand and value such sacrifice.

As I went back to my seat I couldn't help but think..She is someone's daughter, maybe someone's mom, someone's friend...and in my heart I wished there was a better way to say thanks. I will pray more for these men and women and their families for they are living a sacrifice I cannot fully understand but am so grateful for it.

It may be of no coincidence this happened on Easter weekend. I thought of the sacrifice of the One whom I have come to believe in as giving the greatest sacrifice for me. Jesus gave up his own life in exchange for mine to be made acceptable to God. I'm not sure I completely understand all of that sacrifice either, or even know how to thank Him. But I will try to honor His love for me everyday by showing others that there is more to this life than what we can see. Someone cares for us more than we will ever know, and I hope you understand what that means in your life! Have a blessed Easter!

Judy

Romans 14:9 (New Living Translation)
9 Christ died and rose again for this very purpose—to be Lord both of the living and of the dead.

Military men and women waiting to go back overseas (ATL airport 4/1/10)

Here's What My Sister Thinks of Me

My dear sweet younger sister wrote this note on Facebook last year for my birthday.  I thought I would let you read it and see how well you think she did describing me after you have a few of my posts.  BTW..SIS.  if you are reading ..thank you again.  I thought I would let you 'speak' for yourself before I talk about you too much on my blog! LOL 
(one more note before her note....I had used the ABC list as a descriptor of myself at one time or another and so I think my sister modified it ) 

Enjoy (from Karen Smith)  about moi...
by Karen Good Smith on Thursday, August 11, 2011 at 8:27am ·
I decided I would use my abc's to describe my sister on this her 49th birthday!!! These are just a few words that I can use to describe her, I'm sure all of her friends could contribute some more!!! Love ya Sis!

a-awesome
b-beautiful
c-CRAZY, cute
d-delightful
e-electric
f-funny
g-GOOD, grand
h-hilarious
i-intelligent
j-jerky (hee hee)
k-knowing (sometimes she thinks ALL knowing)
l-loving
m-Mom (almost as good as the one we had!)
n-nutty, nocturnal
o-outrageous, sometimes very ORANGE (Go Vols)
p-"Parkie"
q-quiet NOT !!!!
r-religious
s-strong, sure, sunny
t-talented
u-unusual
v-very persuasive
w-WOMAN, wild, way out there sometimes
x-xtra special!!!
y-youthful
z-zany
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I guess I will keep my sister but thinking seriously about a discussion on the C, K , and Q descriptors.  This in turn will force me to post my poem about her at some date.  Now she has something to look forward to!! 

I hope that you have a sibling that is a go-to person for what ever you need in life like my sister Karen is to me.  If not, maybe a  friend is like that to you.  I thank God for blessing my life with Karen Good Smith.  She is a chip off the block (good of both mom, dad, and me!  ).
 
Me and my Sister with Mom
IN10city Hensley aka Judy