Why am I blogging?

My daughter's smile is the lovely one you see above! I love to see people smile! Maybe that is why ...I like to capture smiles or snapshots of things that make others smile with my camera. I know we can't go through every minute of life with a smile but I hope that even when life is hard we can have a peace that others will notice and desire. My blog initially started as a way to honor my mom and her great outlook on life. She died in May 2010 from cancer. I don't think I can ever due justice to her life but I hope I can live my life in a way that would make her proud. The one other great privilege I have had is to be Carol Hensley Singletary's mother. She was our only child and she died suddenly on Feb .27, 2013. She was 19 years old. Her zest for life, her smile and her loving personna is missed by many, but none more than by her husband of just 6 months, Cooper. We carry on by grace and faith in God, and will look for any means to smile while we are left here on this earth for some reason by God. What I would give just to see the beautiful smile of my mom and daughter again! I know without a doubt I will someday, but until then I am going to try and praise my God and King in the life's good days and through life's pains. And i'm sharing here ...in hopes that you will smile with me. judy!

Tuesday, July 12, 2016

The Dance of Hope


 (NOTE:  the original blog was first posted at Parkinson's Journey, by Sherri Woodbridge when i was just starting to blog)


I just caught a few minutes of a show my daughter was watching on TV.  .It was a dance contest for 'America’s Best Dance Crew’.The finalist crews’ names were ‘Super Crew’ and ‘So Real Crew’. Each had about 6-8 members. As it showed their journey to the finals, they emphasized that each group had overcome some big hurdles in getting there.
This was dance moves of  2012, and what my daughter liked to do.  No cha-cha- cha, polka, or even disco.No, these young dancers incorporated break dancing and some interesting non-choreographed moves, many of which left you sitting there thinking, ‘That is impossible!’ It only goes to show what the human spirit can do when it is challenged and we devote our effort to a passion – something that is an inspirational  part of each of us!   You can tell each one on the stage had a passion for their expression of their movement of the dance and their desire to share it with others.
I was struck by one young man’s statement in his interview about his crew’s performances and their determination to win.He said, ‘You will have to kill us to stop us!’ His crew had come back when others thought they couldn’t win more than any other group in the show’s history – three times. Concerning the other team – one of the judges noted their strong performances and their belief in what they were doing even when some of their family members were not so supportive. He said they believed in themselves, then their crew, and then they made the judges and the audience believe in their passion and their dream.
I stood there and watched just a few minutes, but I was impressed. I thought, "These young people may not have been able to do something so impressive on their own, but they worked hard together, taking a shared vision and were somehow making it contagious.’They didn’t listen to others who said ‘You’re out of the running!’, but instead stayed with their idea of what would work for them, even when it was atypical to most dance move history.
Now, what these young people have accomplished may not change the world, but it is a shining example of what the human spirit is capable of producing when one believes in oneself, in a common cause, or in success for the future, and all because of seeing that nothing is impossible with those kinds of attitudes.
All that made me think of the times in my life when I’ve experienced a wonderful feeling of contributing to something special.Some of those times include: playing in band in high school, playing on softball and volleyball teams, helping coach a volleyball team that came out of the losers bracket and would not give up in order to win a tournament last year, meeting and talking with others on the internet with Parkinson’s disease, and being a part of the Parkinson’s Unity Walk the last three years.The sports competitions were for personal gratification.The effort I put out for Parkinson’s is a personal passion.
My body has symptoms caused by Parkinson’s and it can make life somewhat more complicated than normal, but I want to stay determined to do all I can to help work toward a cure.  I have to believe there will be a cure. I have to surround myself with others who will encourage me not to lose hope – then my spirit will endure!
I can't  make a cure for Parkinson’s disease happen on my own, but with the cumulative power of determined spirits within others who live with Parkinson’s, those who have loved ones with PD,  and those who want to be a part of something very special one day -- a cure.  Ask yourself these questions:  
Do you believe that we can make a difference in helping find a cure for PD??
Will you endure, even when the going is not easy?
What are you waiting for ? join the journey for a cure!
I wouuld like to encourage you to look at each day, determined to find the things that you can rejoice in and revive your spirit, and when you can’t seem to find anything joyful in the day, ask a friend to help you find it.  Get in the rhythm again.  Feel the joy of the dance of life.
The world will look at those of us with Parkinson’s and see us dancing a little bit out of sync on the outside, but they will never know the rhythm of hope we have together unless we can let them see it through our collective efforts of dancing/pulling together .It is then that I think they will see and know that a cure will come, and until it does, that rhythm of hope and belief will be a wonderful temporary healing.
Judy
This is a repost with minor modifiations.