Why am I blogging?

My daughter's smile is the lovely one you see above! I love to see people smile! Maybe that is why ...I like to capture smiles or snapshots of things that make others smile with my camera. I know we can't go through every minute of life with a smile but I hope that even when life is hard we can have a peace that others will notice and desire. My blog initially started as a way to honor my mom and her great outlook on life. She died in May 2010 from cancer. I don't think I can ever due justice to her life but I hope I can live my life in a way that would make her proud. The one other great privilege I have had is to be Carol Hensley Singletary's mother. She was our only child and she died suddenly on Feb .27, 2013. She was 19 years old. Her zest for life, her smile and her loving personna is missed by many, but none more than by her husband of just 6 months, Cooper. We carry on by grace and faith in God, and will look for any means to smile while we are left here on this earth for some reason by God. What I would give just to see the beautiful smile of my mom and daughter again! I know without a doubt I will someday, but until then I am going to try and praise my God and King in the life's good days and through life's pains. And i'm sharing here ...in hopes that you will smile with me. judy!

Tuesday, May 9, 2017

Kite Lost but a New Friend Made ([part 2 of the kite story)

In my last blog I wrote about losing my kite one very windy day at the park.  This is the second part of that story.

I was somewhat bummed about my kite reel being stuck up in a cedar tree and was heading back to my car at Willow Springs Park.  It was a short trip at the park, but I was not in a walking mood.  As I neared where my car was parked, I came upon a lady and her mother or mother-in-law,  and they were checking-out some exercise equipment that was just off the walking path.  They invited me to try out the elliptical machine as they were done. 

 I struck up a conversation with the older woman as she stayed to see what my opinion was of the machine.  I was telling her that I was on my way to my car after losing my kite (which you could still see flying really high off in the distance).  She had an accent that I thought was German but she was from Canada and was here to visit their son and wife who lived in Jonesborough.  She said they had only been in town a couple of days but that everyone was so kind.   I told her that the people of this area, East Tennessee, were well known for their kindness and helpfulness.

Her daughter-in-law told me she was from Ontario, and that she had some problems at times with her memory.  My heart was already captured by this sweet lady who was asking "Where is your husband", and  I tried to tell her that he was running with some people at another park and that I lived close to the park we were at.

When her husband and son heard about my kite-escape, they offered to go and see if they could possibly retrieve the reel and my high flying kite.  On the way over the hill to see where my kite reel might be, my new found friend told me her name was Margaret,  and she also went by Marge.  I asked if she had been a stay at home mom or worked somewhere previously.  She said she was a nurse, and I wished her a 'Happy Nurse's Week'.   

When we  got over closer to where I last saw my kite reel, it was still high up in the cedar tree.  We concluded that there was no way to get the reel down so the kite would have to just stay up until the wind let it down, which might be somewhere as far away as Canada! So we headed back to the area near the parking lot.

On the way back to the car, my friend, Margaret, took my hand and told me that I was just beautiful, and so kind.  Several times she did this and I told her that she reminded me of my mother.  My eyes teared up as I told her that my mom died almost seven years ago from colon cancer  and that she was my best friend.... ever, and how it brought me comfort to know that she is in heaven along with my daughter, Carol.

When we got back over to where we first met, I jokingly told Margaret's family that I would gladly take her home with me because she was such a sweet soul.  But I could tell that I was out of luck on that deal.  Margaret told me she and her husband had been married 50 some years, and I figured she had a good thing going there so they should continue together.  I told them that it was a pleasure to meet them and asked if they might take my picture with Margaret, and they did.  So here is the picture of my new friend, from Canada, Margaret.  I wish her well and thank her for loving on me one afternoon at the park!

Judy Hensley 
May 9, 2017

Wednesday, May 3, 2017

A Breezy May day at Willow Springs Park (Part 1 of the Kite story)

I don't know about you,, but I love to fly a kite (not to be mistaken as a 'cot' by my Jerzee friend--inside joke...sorry.. i just had to put that in here)!  Around here you have to be careful to:first, get a day with enough breeze to get the kite aloft, and second, find an open area to fly it in--like, with no power lines or lots of trees nearby.

Usually the best place I have found to fly a kite is at the beach, but yesterday it was blustery all day long and the temperature outside was great  (in the low 70's) and the sky was all blue here in my corner of of East Tennessee!  I had a bought a simple 3' kite at Walmart back in January and a line reel that was easy to let out line and roll it back in.  I had tried this kite only one other time in March at Founders s park near downtown but the winds were low and my running too slow to get the kite up and going.  I was thinking, "One day I am going to get this kite up in the air...One day!"

Prior to yesterday my most successful kite flying time was at the beach in December.  But on Tuesday, May the 2nd, I headed over to Willow Spring Park with my muti-colored kite with a 15 ' long tail and my kite string all rolled up on the red circular reel because it was windy and it was five thirty in the evening; Bill was home from work and out the door to go running with the trail gang.

So I decided to go and try and fly my kite in this one sport what seemed to be the perfect space.

I got to the park in just a few minutes and of course, when I got out of my car, the wind died down, and I thought to myself "if I can't get this kite up in 3 tries then I am going back home, so 'come on win'd!"  I put the kite down, rolled out about 10 yards of line and made a couple of pulls on it while I took a couple of steps and it was up, and it kept going up!

 I was elated.  I needed a picture, because Bill would not believe how high it was going! So I put the line reel under my left arm while I dug for my cell phone in my right pocket with my right hand.  The line was almost at the end, i would say 300 ft up in the beautiful sky, for sure.  Finally, I had my phone and I tried to find the kite in the camera frame but there was too much light and i was just taking pics and video ..like in the dark.  And then, the wind took the kite and the reel out from my grasp and the red 12 in diameter circular reel went bouncing and hopping away through the grass and butterups at a speed faster than this 54 year old woman could go!

I was thinking "I am running after this reel and kite like it is a twenty dollar bill (and, YES< I would even run after a ten or five dollar bill, but not as long.  I was looking for someone walking whose path might intersect my speeding kite reel but saw none, so  I put my head down to make one, last push toward the reel, and when I looked up it was gone!!!

OH, but my kite was still flying high over the  adjacent property, and then I saw the reel.   It was lodged about thirty  feet up in a cedar tree in the tree line separating the properties.  OH well, I was sad but happy as well.  My kite was flying high but not under my care any more.  I hope all the people at the park the other evening got to wonder .."Whose kite is that way up in the sky?"  HUMMMMMM.....
read on to the next blog about what I found after I lost my kite..
Judy
 May 3, 2017