Why am I blogging?

My daughter's smile is the lovely one you see above! I love to see people smile! Maybe that is why ...I like to capture smiles or snapshots of things that make others smile with my camera. I know we can't go through every minute of life with a smile but I hope that even when life is hard we can have a peace that others will notice and desire. My blog initially started as a way to honor my mom and her great outlook on life. She died in May 2010 from cancer. I don't think I can ever due justice to her life but I hope I can live my life in a way that would make her proud. The one other great privilege I have had is to be Carol Hensley Singletary's mother. She was our only child and she died suddenly on Feb .27, 2013. She was 19 years old. Her zest for life, her smile and her loving personna is missed by many, but none more than by her husband of just 6 months, Cooper. We carry on by grace and faith in God, and will look for any means to smile while we are left here on this earth for some reason by God. What I would give just to see the beautiful smile of my mom and daughter again! I know without a doubt I will someday, but until then I am going to try and praise my God and King in the life's good days and through life's pains. And i'm sharing here ...in hopes that you will smile with me. judy!

Sunday, October 28, 2018

Carol's25th bday


OCT. 28, 2018 Well today is full of emotions.  I’d like to summarize a few of them:  Went to church {Bill stayed home}.  Carol’s youth pastor spoke today about Social Justice:  Racism.  Johnny Byrd amazes me every time he speaks to us ‘adults’.  Carol, I know would be so proud of him too!  Yeah, I know Carol..that church that we went to before North Ridge didn’t know what a jewel they had when it came to Johnny.  You know what they say ...“ their loss, our gain”.






Johnny said a lot of good things this morning that we all need to take to heart, and let our actions do our speakin’ for us.so the world “will get it” too! The following points are the best I can translate from my chicken scrating-writing of notes:  For far too long the  modern church has been shouting to the world that we should love one another to eradicate racism but we have not presented the world with  actions to back this up.  Racism is not a skin problem, but a sin problem.  Racism is not the presence of hatred but the absence of LOVE.  He listed 3 things we can do to help us in our relationship with others, to keep racism from creeping in: 
  1. Recognize our own prejudices--they can be small but still there
  2. Seek to understand others with whom we come in contact, by understanding what they think is important to know about differences between us.
  3. We HAVE TO show others  God’s LOVE even tho they may not come from where we have, have a different skin color, gender, belief system, and so on.
His scripture reference was Luke 10 (story of the good Samaritan) and James 2:9.  A this is part of a series of teachings called The Justice League at North Ridge Community Church West Market campus.

So Johnny gave us all some things to think about our perceptions and actions towards others and to not let racism traint our words or actions.    Oh, and he said he asked some friends of his ….of other races, creeds, and color what one thing they would like the world to know, and one person said “that racism still exists”.  IF we could just turn our minds to remember the great love God had for us, when we were so unlike him, he looked past our short-comings and allowed His Son to become the substitute for the consequences of our sins.  

And Johnny took a piece of Ronda Paulson’s  talk last week saying  “we can all do more” when it comes to loving others.  And that brought to my mind the saying “be the change you want to see in the world.”

So the other great thing about our campus is the worship music is great!   But I just could not forget  the irony of the last song being sung on Carol’s birthday: “The Reckless Love of Christ”.  There  is a line in it that speaks about the Parable of The Lost Sheep, and that was Carol’s favorite bible story when she was little.  It is an amazing song about what lengths God will go to pursue us and show us His great love for us.!

Link o the song:  https://youtu.be/dWi-Q00zdrg

Now go read Romans 8:38-39 which we had put on Carol’s marker and fully believe that she believed it  Hugs from Judy and thanks for the remembrances of Carol you have shared today.


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nk o the song:  https://youtu.be/dWi-Q00zdrg
http://www.hallels.com/articles/20232/20181015/jo-dee-messina-takes-refuge-in-god-in-cancer-battle-by-recording-reckless-love.htm

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